Every marriage
is really made up seven mini-marriages, according to Mel and Pat
Krantzler. The mini-marriages reflect a couple's changing lives
and needs. These challenges can make or break a relationship.
Packed with case
histories and practical techniques, this guide to lasting love empowers
couples to sustain and enrich their most important commitment.
Publishers Weekly
reported: “The Kranzlers, California psychologists who are
married to each other, describe the seven stages (``marriages'')
of married life in these Passages for married couples. They take
readers from the initial ``Movie-Marriage-in-Your-Mind'' stage (characterized
by the ``clash of expectations with reality'') through career-building,
child-raising, middle-age and retirement stages to the final ``After-Death
Marriage'' of the surviving spouse. Along the way they point out
the threats to mutual love and opportunities for personal growth
inherent in a developing relationship, citing examples from their
own lives and from their shared practice as illustration. Their
occasional forays into the issues of the day--women's rights, the
need for affordable child care--add to their sound, self-help manual's
appeal.”